There are three kinds of old men: the grumpy, the gloomy, and the grievers. Despite their inconsolable anguish, grievers are the cheerier bunch, understanding devastating loss results from having experienced abundant love. Though desperately missing the deceased’s affection, companionship, and conversation, grievers mourn by mining memories with heartfelt, lifelong thankfulness.
Bob Thurber is the author of six books. Regarded as a master of Flash and Micro Fiction, his work has appeared in Esquire and other magazines, been anthologized 60 times, received a long list of awards, and been utilized in schools and colleges throughout the world. He resides in Massachusetts. Visit his website at BobThurber.net.
Beautiful and perfect.
It’s great to have good memories 😌 😊
So true and a bittersweet way of looking at loss.
I always love reading your stories. “…grievers are the cheerier bunch…” I never thought of it this way.
Yes,we old guys mourn our absent loved ones, their acceptance of our frailties, their affection, understanding and, oh, their expert cooking.
I’ve just lost a grandparent. This short story sat well with me. Thank you. It appeared at the perfect time.
Three kinds of old women too—crotchety, gossipy and, yes, grievers. Beautifully said, Bob Thurber.
The truth in fifty words..loved it
Sad, beautiful truth. xx